I say there is no another thing in this life that can make people stay together for a long time, there is no another thing but mutual respect. I guess, it is the mutual respect the best reason for people to marry each other. When it is all about love the end is usually rather sad and dull. People thought they were in love and soon they realize that there were no love for them and so there is no reason for them to stay together. But, they are wrong and there was love between them, though that love was killed by common life and arguing people had about that life and household and the whole marriage and family stuff. So, I guess it takes mutual respect ad ability for temporizing for people t stay together and have great married life together. If there is love – there are emotions and if there are emotions there may be rude words and stupid actions and those are like lightning that strikes and burns the boat of love. There should be no love in marriage and I guess it is the very truth. But I reject this truth and I say love is the only possible reason…

Actually, there is no reason for people to get married except the one – it is the way it should be. People rare think about reasons for which they do one or another things that is common for all people in the world and the same is true for marriage. People know that if there are two people who are in love with each other they have to get married, but why? Why should they get married and promise something to each other when there are witnesses for their oaths? They shouldn’t. If there is love and if people are truly in love with each other and if they appreciate each other and care about each other they can spend their whole life together and be the most loyal and devoted partners, but if there are no such feeling than no agreement can save them from separation. They will never be together and they will betray each other and there is no such a stamp that would make people in love and that would make people stay together in case their feelings fake. So, there is no reason for people to get married, but here is a reason for not to betray one who trusts you.

You think that your first marriage is over. You have quitted with it and will never do that stupid thing any more. Your divorce procedure has made you feel hatred for any person of an opposite sex. You start to spend long lonely evenings either at home or with your divorced friends. You find your new way of life rather interesting as you are quite free. No family scandals. No responsibilities. No problems.A couple of years is usually enough to heal all sores of your soul. You start to see nice people around you. Some of them are very nice and pleasant. This might incline you for a second try. Have you ever noticed changes in your attitude to other people? You have become more patient, wiser and ready to help. It is time to think about the potential for family life. Frankly speaking, marriage is stable and happy when two people feel stable and happy together. A second marriage may become better as both of you have understood why you want to be together.Second marriages are usually successful as people join together with widely open eyes. They have got a lot of mistakes in their first experience and do not want to repeat them any more. The lessons learned during the first marriage are quite enough. We are stronger, wiser and more tolerant to each other. A new love comes and turns out to be much stronger, nicer and better. Do your best and be happy.

It really wasn’t that long ago when couples lived separately until after marriage. Now, marriage is almost a secondary thought for many couples because there is a new convenience offered simply by living together. Living together offers shared expenses, a shared lifestyle, and the chance to really determine whether or not this person is right for your marriage preferences. There are still plenty of parental figures in our lives that disapprove of living together before marriage, and yet more and more couples are having children, living their lives, and engaging in all the normal routines of marriage without having the legal paperwork available. Marriage is a commitment that many people find rather distressing and living together very much like a married couple can help assuage some of those fears. With the divorce rate so high it is no wonder that marriage seems like a far fetched concept to some. However, there is a difference between living together and going through with getting married. Marriage offers a new level of acceptance between the two of you, a new level of commitment, and new level of appreciation when it comes to how others view you. Marriage is a statement of intention, and that intention is a life long one. While you might not be pining for immediate marriage, committing to a partner in this way helps erase the potential for leaving which makes it more likely that you and your partner will work through some rather difficult times.

Perhaps marriage is one of the most important events in life for many people. Thus today it is easier to divorce and people do not have to make choice for the whole life unless they would like to perform a special ceremony in the church. Marriage is still a great decision to make. There are special traditions which are connected with the ceremony of wedding. Everyone knows them and takes them for granted, but very few people are aware of the real significance. For example, it is a tradition of throwing the bouquet. In earlier times this boquet was made not of the flowers but of the plants which have strong smell such as garlic. The odour of them was supposed to frighten the evil spirits from the bride.
The bride should wear a white dress as a symbol of innocence and devotion to the groom. There was an old tradition which is still used in some countries. The usher should help the groom to bring the bride-to-be secretly. The origin of this habit dates back to the times when people lived in small tribes and there were not enough women in some of them that is why the men had to hunt for new wives in the neighbourhood. The groom took the strongest of his friends to carry the woman and proceeded to the nearest tribe to steal the bride-to-be.
The traditions of marriage are rather interesting as they exist for a long time.

Divorce on the level of stress is in second place after the death of a spouse or close relative. Indeed, whatever the reasons for the dissolution of the marriage, the pain is inevitable. And this is natural: a family, you put a certain feeling, emotion and hope. With the disintegration of the family to one degree or another is destroyed and the inner world of man. And on what would have been initiated or divorce, trauma (explicit or hidden) have experienced both spouses. 
Yes, divorce - it hurt, scared, upset, and often despair. But still it is - not the end of life. Divorce brings with it significant changes in life, but what they will be depends only on the individual. Now is your task - to get rid of the burden of negative emotions (as do so, you can only allow himself to live up to their end) and at the same time preserve the integrity of its internal «I». 
Bad but predictable? 
For our grandparents divorce often meant indelible disgrace to the end of days for mothers - the collapse of long-life and public reprimand. 
In Soviet times, divorce looked back mass difficulties both at the domestic, and at the community level. The housing issue in this case was decided a long time. Divorced not produced abroad, the career of the party line they had been ordered as well, and work at sensitive sites. 
The initiator of divorce yelled incessantly at various meetings. The ratio of children from single-parent families was clear – “fatherlessness”. Modern society is a divorce much more tolerant, but at a subconscious level, our genetic memory has information that the divorce - a disaster. In addition, by their very nature women more than men, striving for stability, does not like change.